Or in our case, reading it will be candy to her eyes.
If her first name is not available, you can substitute her username. Depending on her username, addressing her this way can be pretty funny on its own.
During your initial scan, you should be looking for pictures and phrases that stand out to you. It’s natural to be drawn in by big pretty eyes, long healthy hair, killer curves, or any number of other physical assets she has on display in her profile pictures.
The key to making it work, is to identify 1 thing you like most about her pictures. Next, scan what she’s written for something that stands out most to you. This statement is great, because it signals sexual interest, blames the outfit instead of her, and suggests that the one being seduced, which flips the script to allow her to flirt with you from a safe position.
When sending a first message for online dating, there’s a big difference between giving away value with statements, and seeking to elicit it from her with questions. Make your statements either Think about it, what makes for a great wedding toast? And if she catches The Simpsons reference then hey, even better.